Happy 2021 ka....just realized that this is my first message of this new year na ka! Haven't felt the difference loei ka.
I have a little story to share today ka.
The other day, I had lunch with my youngest brother's family and was chatting with my youngest nephew who's studying in a high school ka.
Since I had surgery over a month ago (went fine and recovering well ka!), I asked my nephew why he didn't ask me how I've recovered....in fact just a small talk ka.
He said, 'I don't know how krub.'
I then told him that he could simply ask if I got better. He nodded while this brief chat has triggered my thoughts a lot ka.
Firstly, I started looking back why younger ones may not ask us about life and all. In addition to their own lack of the right questions to ask, it could also be because they don't know if they should or could....or even when.
This is part of the soft skills and one that families and adults could take up to enhance caring in our society through personal interactions......what could be overlooked in our today's speedy world na ka.
Secondly, I began thinking of some skills I could use easily and I failed to think others may not have it....and vice versa ka.
An example is about my cousin who I always admire for his intelligence and well-roundedness. Once he asked how he should write and do to express sympathy over the passing of our beloved 'American dad'. Then, I couldn't get it at all because of my own ignorance ka.....my family told me that he may not have been through such an experience.
I also looked back at my own skills and found that writing to share my expressions on different occasions could be quite easy for me (I have to think hard sometimes to personalize the messages, though.) It could be because of my love of jotting down a good number of wishes from greeting cards when I was much younger whenever I went to Hallmark Cards shops plus my joy/duty of sending notes on various occasions for decades.
People are skillful in different situations and on different issues so I needed to remind myself of individuals' training, circles of work, and areas of interest.
Lastly, sharing/advising is more and more in need without generation/ position barriers as long as we feel free to be open about what we do and don't know in order to learn more ka.....growth mindset chai mai ka? Simply say, 'I don't know how ka/krub!'
These are little things that could mean a lot not only to help us learn and become more skillful but also for our relationship building na ka.
Agree mai ka?
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